In language, as in love, being understood and getting the point across means more than the mastery of every combination of its elements. Language, like love, flows. It dances. It is in free-form.
The mistake in love, as in language, is to think that form comes before substance. But, as a wise person once said, "What is small can be contained in what is big. But what is big can never be contained in what is small." Remember that what truly matters encompasses everything.
The language of love always breathes life. It is the substance that gives rise to the form. Therefore, it is only in love that you may speak with perfect fluency and speak words that are then made flesh.