Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Real Life vs. Internet Culture

No, not everything is instant. Not everything is one click away. Things cannot be just played or gamed and you can't troll your way out of complicated situations. As much as tech hawks and their willing market want us to believe, we do not actually live online. 

Yes, many things happen online. You can form a whole narrative about who you want to be in a virtual space, sell it to people, and start to buy the fiction yourself. But, we live in the real world. Real life requires showing up consistently through the best and worst times. It requires a sturdy character and a clear stand on what matters.

At the end of the day, what are said and done in virtual spaces will reflect who we are in reality. Our online selves will be measured up to our real selves. Inconsistencies, if any, will show. Cracks in any inauthentically crafted persona will be revealed. 

Because when times are tough, the difference between an artificially inflated and detached online agenda versus our steady and consistent real world character will become so evident that the blurred line between virtual and reality will once again be crystal clear.

Monday, June 9, 2025

Undo Harm

All things have a good side and a bad side, they say. All we can do, they say, is make the most out of the benefits, and limit the negatives. This may be true now. It was true in the past and may even be true for the near future.

But, I disagree with those who say this. I believe a time will come when bad things not only can be limited, but can and must be completely undone and reversed.

I say, some things are perfectly good, and some things are perfectly evil. The gray area between the two exists only because we do not know everything yet - because some key information are still yet to be uncovered. The goal is to uncover all of it and know its full meaning. I believe this is possible because God (or whatever you want to call it) does not play dice, nature is not malevolent, and everything is out in the open waiting to be discovered by anyone with enough faith to persist in seeking. I believe the goal of removing the gray area - in other words uncovering the truth - is the only goal worth pursuing in life.

I choose to believe this because if this were true - if it is true that all things can be known, and that knowing everything will lead to an unadulterated understanding of good and evil, then it would mean that good things can exist without the bad. It would mean that any harm, not only can be limited, but can and must also be undone. It would mean that anything broken can and must be made whole again, anything corrupted can and must be made with integrity again, anything once dead will live forever, and anything lost will find salvation. It would mean there is justice. And, it will mean that our most noble ideals are not merely dreams, but a reality.

The alternative is to say we must live with both the good and the bad. And for a long time, we may have to. But while I refuse to believe this is a permanent state of affairs, I may be proven wrong in the end. Maybe that's all that there is. Maybe I end up being proven to be on the losing side of the battle. But, I have made my call. I have picked a side. If I lose, then at least I risked everything for the chance to undo harm.





Thursday, June 5, 2025

What Happened to the Filipino Intellectuals?

The short answer to that question is that they were forcibly and, at many occasions, brutally removed from Filipino society and consciousness. For the most part today, all that is left of them are empty husks and unconvincing copies of the real deal - they are the annoying conyo, the out-of-touch mayaman, and the sell-out wannabes - who give being educated or successful a bad name.

The most recent and obvious moment when our country antagonized our own people was during the Martial Law period - where scores of Filipino intellectuals (student leaders, statesmen, artists, etc.) were tortured, disappeared, and killed. Many of those who survived were left heavily traumatized and ended up going into exile or leaving the country for good. Such circumstance resulted in a classic brain drain for the country.

But, a less violent continuation of this intellectual capital loss continues to this day. It picked up where the trauma from the massacre had left off, and started its run with only subtle hints, insinuations, that maybe, just maybe - people who strive to be decent, who value hard work especially in education, and more importantly, those who put a premium on honesty and integrity in learning and in life's dealings in general - were nothing more than out-of-touch elitists and hypocrites; maybe they were being too Westernized; maybe they were even un-Filipino. Why? Because isn't a Filipino supposed to be someone "relatable", meaning - a little slow in class, knows how to cut corners sometimes, not too honest, with a konting-diskarte-konting-ilegal-papaldo-rin-can-do mindset. Straight English talk? Nosebleed. Sipag? Bakit, mamanahin mo ba ang kumpanya? And most important, wag ka masyadong honest nagbibiruan lang tayo dito char.

When did we as a people accept that hardwork, honesty, and genuine pursuit of knowledge is nothing more than utopian thinking, o worse, a vice that must be eliminated? When did we as a people accept that money was the end all and be all; that just having money made you a good person to be emulated; that a certain fair-skinned look, a certain manner of speaking, a certain way of dressing and a very particular culture - were the only ones of value and acceptable as representative of what it means to be Filipino, and that any other ones must be viewed with suspicion or even considered lesser? 

I know when. It is when we surrendered our psychology. "We may surrender everything, but we must never surrender our psychology" is a roundabout way of saying we surrender nothing. For when we know our psychology, we know who we are. And when we know who we are, we have control over the one thing we can control in life - ourselves.

But maybe, the erosion of trust to begin with in the ruling Filipino intellectual elites was a result of a genuine dissatisfaction with the way they had governed back then, and out of a genuine anger at their dismissiveness to people outside of their lot in life. Maybe, grave mistakes were made, power voids were created, people's darker impulses took over, and a price had to be paid.

That may be so. But we must never mistake enduring values - honesty, hardwork, dedication to learning - as something that merely belongs to this or that class or this or that culture. These are values that must cut across all walks of life, for they are the only thing that will lift us all up together. And, as long as there is time, what have been lost may be gained back. What have been surrendered, may be reclaimed. We can define who we are for ourselves, and most importantly, aim to stay true to our better nature over our darker instincts at all times.

Saturday, May 31, 2025

You Can't Weaponize Words

Those who can no longer get away with using brutal physical force to coerce others to obey have turned to manipulating words to psychologically and subliminally force others to buy into whatever it is they are selling. But, they are doomed to fail. Words can't be manipulated. Words can't be weaponized. Weaponized words mean lies. Our words will always reflect our true intentions. We can never hide behind them or use them to create illusions. Our words will never cover up for us, but it will always reveal who we are.

Thursday, April 24, 2025

Too Honest and Too Good

There is no such thing as too honest. You are either honest or you are not. You are either telling the truth or you are lying. Good is the opposite of evil. You are either right or you are wrong. Gray areas and white lies are not real. Everything has a simple answer.

Tuesday, April 22, 2025

Neat Boxes

Those who wish to keep things just the way they like are quick to create neat boxes for everyone to fall into. These people are cynical and incapable of seeing individuals in full. They prefer clean-cut, soulless representations of the real thing so they can more easily manipulate the situation to their liking. They only propagate cheap copies and fakes. These copies contained in neat boxes may look and feel like the real thing, they may even talk like the real thing, but they are not the real deal. It may seem like choices are offered, but in reality, it is just more of the same old ruse.

Wednesday, April 16, 2025

Hindi Mo Mai-aangat Ang Boses Na Kumakausap sa Lengwaheng Hindi Mo Sinasalita

Hindi ka makakakonekta sa mga taong hindi mo kinikilala.
Hindi mo maaaring maintindihan ang dinadama ng mga tao kung ang kanilang karanasan ay ibinababa at ginagamit mo lamang.
Hindi ka makakatulong sa mga taong nakikita mo lamang bilang numero.
Hindi mo maikukwento ang buhay na totoo kapag ikaw mismo ay nagpapanggap.
Walang sinuman ang may kakayahan makapag-angat sa kanyang kapwa kapag ang lengwahe na gamit mo ay banyaga lamang sa kanyang tenga.

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